I have been looking for some NDE's that suggest some kind of amends or reconciliating took place between the experiencer and someone already passed over.  Do you have any to add?
 

PERSONAL NDE'S
 
These are from the website for the International Association of Near-Death Studies [IANDS]
Here is one where a person met many people from their family:

 Met by Mother
After having flu-like symptoms for three days, I realized that I was not getting better and tried to find help where I worked. I was alone in London. Trying to get help I felt like I was walking above everyone. On reaching work they immediately called a taxi, which took me to the nearest emergency hospital. On arrival I passed out at once and awoke hours later in an isolation ward. Several nurses were washing me down with ice-cold water and forcing me to drink iced water. The windows were wide open in the middle of winter. A doctor arrived and told them to stop, as I was dead. At once, my spirit left my body and I looked down and observed the whole scene from above. I could see the nurses had defied the doctor; he slammed the door upon leaving the room.
Almost at once I began a terrifying journey down a black spiral tunnel to an amazingly bright light, the likes I have never seen before or since. On arriving in a very beautiful place, I was met by my mother who had died two years earlier. She told me this was heaven and began to introduce me to family who had died and I had never known. There was a bright light there that I could not look at because of its brightness. After about twenty minutes a man who I did not know came up and told me it's not your time yet and you have to go back.
The journey back was the same, but this time into darkness. When I re-entered my body I was in great pain. I was unconscious for around three days. When I finally came to, I was told about having suffered double pneumonia and surviving a temperature of over 108. They said to date no one had ever survived such a high body temperature. After two weeks in the hospital, I was transferred to a convalescent home for an additional two weeks.
The events are as clear in my mind as if they had happened yesterday. I have told many people about my story and some have said it brought great comfort to them.

Here is one where parents from the other side stopped to pass on some messages they had:

Parental Visits beyond a Dream

My parents were not overly demonstrative and after they passed away, my father on July 11, 1988 and my mother on January 3, 1989, both of them visited me in a single night.
I went to sleep normally around 10:00 p.m. and sometimes around 2 a.m. I awoke after having a VERY strong dream, more real than dream-like. I was sitting at my mother's funeral with her to my right during the services. As friends and family gathered and then left my mother watched in wonder, smiling and shaking her head. She said over and over again how this was “such an outpouring of love.” After all the crowds of mourners left, she turned to me, patted my right knee with her left hand and said, “I just wanted you to know that I DO love you.” This was a true closure for me as she rarely uttered such words. The scene then faded and I woke up feeling refreshed and washed with my mother's love. There was no sadness, only a great, fulfilling completeness.
I checked the clock (2:00 a.m.) and immediately dropped off to sleep again. Once again, I was at my father's funeral. He sat to my left. He watched the mourners silently and stoically. Then he turned to me, putting his right hand on my shoulder to get my attention and said, “You need to know that I am proud of you.” The scene faded and I awoke. It was barely past 2:30 a.m. My father would NEVER say this while he was alive and I spent the entire 40 years of my life being his daughter trying and failing to get him to acknowledge my accomplishments or to even smile at me. I awoke and felt so completely peaceful and full of love that I know he had a mission to return to me and give me this final message. I slept the remainder of that night peacefully and woke at my regular time of 6 a.m. to go to work. 

In these stories, there is no clear example of amends, but perhaps you know of others.

September's movie, Flatliners, will explore the theme further in fiction, as medical students try to achieve clinical death to find out what they will experience.

Of, course, most of us won't have an NDE opportunity to make amends with someone on the other side!  But, are there ways to offer amends to souls in the heaven?


MAKING AMENDS BEYOND THE GRAVE

Our family and friends in the spirit world  probably know what is happening in our lives. We can behave in ways that show we have made an amend.  It may not be to that person directly, but it can be in the general sense of something that person would appreciate.

Extinguish your candles

 

   

And close the Bible.            

 

 

Go forth; knowing that even death cannot stop our amends for our regeneration.